What's your worst fear about your partner?

[Ja Sa Bong]

I know a lot of people are not into a relationship for one reason or another. For those who found themselves still being in a relationship, what's the biggest fear you have about your partner? It's something you wake up every morning and dread it becoming a reality.

 

[Gigi]

worst fear, that actually has happened (ON MANY times) is cheating.

 

[Katty66]

As I get older, my worst fear is that when my husband leaves for work in the morning that it might be the last time I see him. We all die at some point and as I get older, that reality gets brought to mind. Will I die before him? No idea.

 

[Wessel]

I've been cheated and screwed over in most of my relationships. Those are the two things that I fear happening again. I think if someone is going to cheat, I'd rather they left me first.

 

[Kyng]

That we'll move in together, and then find that we just don't get along with one another in that setting, for one reason or another.

Of course, I get along with her very well now, but we're still living separately, and living together is a very different ball game!

 

[ZandraJoi]

As I get older, my worst fear is that when my husband leaves for work in the morning that it might be the last time I see him. We all die at some point and as I get older, that reality gets brought to mind. Will I die before him? No idea.

I'm older as well & that is my fear. We just try not to think about it!

 

[Katty66]

I'm older as well & that is my fear. We just try not to think about it!

Have you discussed it with your significant other?

When I got cancer, it was something we needed to talk about and I gave him instructions on what to do in case I passed, not just where I wanted to be buried and the funeral, but what HE should do. Our daughter didn't move out this way at that time, so I told him to move back to the town we grew up in to be close to friends and family again, even thought that meant leaving his job. Being here alone would have been bad for him. Luckily I made it through, but now we wonder, who is going first? I think I'm stronger mentally to handle things like that more.

 

[ZandraJoi]

Have you discussed it with your significant other?

When I got cancer, it was something we needed to talk about and I gave him instructions on what to do in case I passed, not just where I wanted to be buried and the funeral, but what HE should do. Our daughter didn't move out this way at that time, so I told him to move back to the town we grew up in to be close to friends and family again, even thought that meant leaving his job. Being here alone would have been bad for him. Luckily I made it through, but now we wonder, who is going first? I think I'm stronger mentally to handle things like that more.

Oh yeah! We even got our Living Trust last year but before that, we had went through what to do if one of us goes or is in the hospital on life support. It's hard to think about but it really should be done by all. Even regardless of age as you never know.