That sucks. I'm sorry. I grew up with a guy who has it. He's 600 pounds and didn't take his divorce very well. His wife left him because he was too dependent on her and couldn't keep a job. He did a lot of things he shouldn't have done in the marriage. Then worse, his dad cheats on his mom and he has to deal with that. So over the years after those events he's put on more weight and has become a complete asshole. He would always say hi to me in public. One day I approached him when we ran into each other at the bowling alley. He said hi. I said hi back. After awhile I decided that I go talk to him. So I did. I went and tried to strike up a conversation thinking that he was listening. Nope, he gets up without a word and walks away as if I wasn't there. That was the last straw for me. I don't tolerate that kind of disrespect. I now refuse to have anything to do with him.